Sex and Love? Which one do you choose?
Specially for gurls,
Having sex with guy is not a recipe for instant love. Sex is a physical act and love is an emotional state. Generally speaking, if there is no love, even if you desperate want there to be, having sex won’t change the situation at all. On the other hand if love already there on both sides, then having sex or not having sex shouldn’t change your feelings, either.
Finally, what is love all about ? 
Hmm…the component of loves derived from chemistry, infatuations, security, sex and etc. (Errr..could not think more abt it..sorrie).So love has many different parts, all add up to a feeling that, well you can’t quite explain. It is hard to describe. Seriously. Because love is something that is unique to every person, only you can decide if you are in it.
For instance, do you happen to like him just the way he is? He wouldn’t be slighty more appealling if he drove a better car or was on the baseball team or was to nicer around your friends? Hint: It is pretty good sign you are in love when you like and accept a guy for who you like him to be. Did you say you can be yourself around him? He can always come over, or when the PMS beast has taken over really furious of someone, and you still love him. Remember forgiveness is a skill to take time to perfect but so is asking for it. There is also a matter of understanding. He is your body? If you can share your deepest fears and biggest humilations with him, then you can feel pretty confident that you are in love. Before I decided to end this topic, please share this poem then. It is not created by me actually. I am not qualified yet to be a great poet. Hehe =)
The meaning of love
Love is when two people touch
each other ’s soul
Love is honestly and Trust
Love is helping one another
Love is Mutual Respect
Love means the differences can be worked out
Love is reaching your dream together
Love is connection of two hearts
YOURS & MINE
Authors : Unknown
November 26th, 2005 at 10:37 am
1)SEX & LOVE, 4me both “DRUG” 2)SEX + LOVE = Couple? maybe?3)SEX of LOVE -> OK, natural 4)LOVE of SEX -> !!!, DANGER 5)Understanding, followed by Forgiveness - essential n timelineness… Attention pls! (of cos, Tolerance also)
6)SEX… seasoning the LOVE, too much spoil “real feelings”, right? Ur answer? 7)LOVE? how u define it? Science defined as “Feromon” reaction”, Art defined as “Sacrification”, I defined it simply a “FEELING” gua… 8)LOVE is good enough “if SEX never exist”, but “if” only.
9) Yet, SEX still “The Best Workout” in the World - our world especially!!! It is about “psychological” n “physiological” health izit?10)Who cares? God knows? Juz tat I dunno n I dun care, or should I care? Someday Sometime Somehow, Somewhat the hell, I shall… (if i lucky to live long enough to… nvm suah, forget it ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I’m DONE)